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expected-Enthusiasm essential to True Nobility of Character-What
is True Heroism?-Lines from The Angel in the House '-Shake-
speare's Portia-The Type of intellectual Strength and loving Tender-
ness-Mrs. Jameson's Opinion-Perhaps true of Girls fifty years ago,
but not now- -Wordsworth's Picture of Womanhood-Lady Jane
Grey-Her Childhood-Ascham's Opinion of her-Tennyson's Lines
Her Letter to her Sister-Charlotte Brontë-Life at Haworth-

The 'History of the Year 1829'-Early Writings -The Miscellaneous

Character of her Reading-Harriet Martineau-Her early Life-

Mrs. Inchbald-Fanny Burney-Her Education-Pope quoted-The

Potency of Industry-Caroline Herschel-Her Letters-Her Scientific

Labours-Ben Jonson's Lines-Sara Coleridge-Her youthful Pur-

suits and Accomplishments-Wordsworth's Poem The Trial '--

Aubrey de Vere's Description of Sara Coleridge-Mrs. Hemans's
Girlhood-Early Poems-Her Intellect and Accomplishments-Her
extraordinary Memory-How to cultivate the Memory-Miss Marsh
-Her philanthropic Labours among the 'Navvies '-Anecdotes of
her Protégés-Caroline Chisholm-Extract from her Letter to a
Friend-Her Work among the Emigrants-Madame de Staël-
Early Development of her Genius-Frederika Bremer-Extracts
from her Diary-Barry Cornwall's Lines-A. H. Clough quoted-
What an English Girl should be-Talents to be rightly used, not
wasted-Importance of Diligence-Proper use of Leisure-Sarah
Tytler quoted

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CHAPTER I.

THE GIRL AT HOME.

'Gentle thoughts, when they may give the foil,
Save them that yield, and spare where they may spoil.'
T. HEYWOOD.

'Our home is still home, be it ever so homely.'

C. DIBDIN.

Definition of 'a Girl'-The Girl in her Domestic Relations-The Girl as
Daughter-Agnes Jones, the Hospital Nurse-Extract from The Ladies'
Calling'-Disobedience and Disrespect to Parents reprehended-George
Eliot quoted-The Girl as Sister-What Great Men have owed to their
Sisters-Tender Relation between Sister and Brother-Mary Sidney's
Lament-Macaulay and his Sisters-His Letter to his Sister Margaret-
The Relation between Sisters-Hannah More and her Sisters-The
Girl's Home Duties-Idle Girls to be pitied-Wordsworth's Lines-
Catherine Spooner-The 'Soft Answer' a Promoter of Home Happiness
-The First Quarrel to be avoided-How Home Peace is disturbed-
Politeness should begin at Home-Order Essential to Home Happiness
-How the Girl may ensure it-Method and System absolutely necessary
to Success-Early Rising enjoined-Formulas not always Practical-
The Review of each Day's Actions helpful in the Art of Living Well-
Miss Wilford's Story, 'A Maiden of Our Own Day,' quoted.

N venturing on the pleasant task of describing 'Girls and their Ways,' I rely on the sympathies and kindly feelings of my readers. There is little difficulty in defining what the 'Girl' is, for most judgments are alike respecting her. So far as I know there is a general consensus of opinion in her favour. The Girl is usually the mother's companion and the father's pet; and whilst in not a few families the ominous hint has been heard that the boy

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THE GIRL IN HER TEENS.

could be dispensed with-that, to say the least of it, his absence would be endured with calmness-no such hint is thrown out as regards the Girl. She remains the inevitable, the indispensable. Nothing can be done without her. She must be foremost in the family's councils; she must share in and contribute to the family's pleasures. Uncles caress and aunts adore her; grandfathers lavish smiles upon her, and grandmothers consent to be wheedled by her. She may be defined, therefore, as the sunshine of domestic life; she is the charm of the home, the queen of the fireside.

I speak of the Girl in her 'teens'—as she is, or ought to be, in the happy period that intervenes between childhood and womanhood. Never is the woman, I think-however blessed may be her later years, however devoted may be her love of husband and children, not even though her ambition be gratified, though all her wishes be fulfilled-so happy as in the years between twelve and twenty. Then she rests in her mother's encircling arms; she is sustained by her father's experience and sagacity; her brothers wait upon her and dote upon her; she enjoys, perhaps, a sister's sweet companionship, and life comes to her like a rose from which all the thorns have been removed.

It is needless to say that the Girl presents herself for examination under several aspects. First, we must regard her as the Daughter. And in no other capacity does she appear more to advantage when she is true to herself, when she understands and discharges a daughter's duties, and while enjoying a daughter's privileges, takes upon herself a daughter's obligations. When a mother can say 'I rely upon my daughter: to have her in my place is just as if I were there myself.' When a father can say 'I have implicit confidence in my daughter; she has never deceived, never disobeyed me.' When both parents can say 'Our daughter thoroughly understands us, and we thoroughly understand her; the most entire sympathy exists between us.' Such a daughter as Mrs. Oliphant's 'Miss Marjoribanks,' only a little softer, or perhaps her 'Rose in

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